victims

Say their names: Addie Mae Collins, Denise McNair, Carole Robertson, and Cynthia Wesley.

On September 15, 1963 four Black girls were murdered at the 16^th Street Baptist Church in Birmingham, Alabama. I was 13 years old; and I was horrified by the tragedy. The pictures of the girls and the blast still remain embedded in my brain. My response to the shocking murders was personal because I found many similarities between me and Addie Mae, Denise, Carole, and Cynthia.

We were young girls who had sisters. I shared a name with Carole. We sang in the choir at church. We went into the bathroom and fussed with our hair before church. We all went to school and had homework. I wondered whether we listened to and enjoyed the same music on the radio—“Heat Wave” and “Big Girls Don’t Cry.” There seemed to be so many similarities, but our skin color difference was immeasurable.

As I wrote my book, Dr. King, The Rabbi, and Me: A Connecticut Journey, I learned so much about how those differences permeate my perspectives and my writing. Initially, as I detailed the events of that day, I wrote the four girls were “killed.” My editor corrected me. Say the words, she said: They were murdered.

Say their names: George Floyd. Breonna Taylor. Ahmaud Arbery. Say the words. They. Were. Murdered.